Cyberbullying is the use of the Internet or other electronic means to stalk or harass an individual, group, or organization. It can include false accusations, defamation, slander and libel.
Bullies can come in different shapes and sizes, but they all share characteristics that allow them to stand out in a personal or professional relationship, if one is aware of these traits. It is helpful to be aware of these personality flaws early on, to avoid falling into the clutches of the predator and blocking him from attempting misanthropic actions. It is imperative to remember that you are dealing with a psychopath who is interested in nothing more than possessing or ruining you, whatever the case may be. This is a narcissistic loner who feeds on others’ attempted ruin.
Profile of the stalker
– The stalker starts out slowly, injecting familiarity into a relationship. Your only goal is to become a best friend and cohort, showing great interest in your location, organizations, friends, colleagues, family, and every other facet of your life. They can lurk through phone calls, emails, connect with those who know you, or even a collection of photos, documents, background information, social media, and anything related to your social life and current job. They quickly abandon the formal titles that may have grown over the years, feeling entitled to call you by your first name.
– They routinely tear apart their own old friends, old relationships, existing professional relationships, and even family members in unimaginable ways, always posing as the victim.
– Narcissism is an important part of their disruptive behavior as they firmly believe that no one is willing to deal with their antics. They feel that they live in a world where others “don’t follow the rules.”
– They eventually become hostile and volatile when their “brand” becomes aware of their invasive behavior. This is when the mask of benevolence falls off and your true nature rears its ugly head:
1- They start by trying to repair the damage, which is impossible because the situation has already been exhausted.
2- They become vindictive and begin to stalk and harass their victim.
3- They dance around themes, hiding behind supposed names and aliases. Fortunately, her efforts fail when others instantly see through her thin veil of drama. The third warns the victim of the bullies’ careless attempts at destruction. Their narcissism tricked them into believing they could pull it off when in reality their inflated ego was once again blurred with rage.
Internet Violations
There are many reasons, in the mind of the perpetrator, to use the Internet as a means to stalk, defame and harass their victim. It is a very seductive place until they are finally unmasked. This always happens, especially sooner rather than later, with surprisingly high penalties and unforeseen consequences. Naturally, they are always shocked and outraged, when they find out, once again claiming victimization.
– When first attempting the act of cyberbullying, the bully believes deep down in his heart that it is the perfect place to remain anonymous, although there are new electronic devices and different formulas that include Internet rules and regulations that carry strong sanctions once their true identity is unmasked. and it always is, since you can run but you can’t hide in this age.
– Third party recipients of weak attempts by stalkers to discredit their victims are almost always willing and able to identify the stalker and present strong evidence, both written and documented. They will also be witnesses as third party recipients of the intrusive actions of the bullies.
Unmasking the bully: self-protection
If you ever find yourself in this position, remember, conscience will save you from having to endure the stalker’s trap before it happens. This is not a sad person, nor a lonely person, nor an unfortunate person. This is a psychopath who is capable of twisting situations, erasing relationships, lying, stealing, and cheating on others. Your only concern in life is “yourself” and nothing else. This is narcissism at its finest. He is someone with the strong intention of getting ahead of you, ruining you, and discrediting everything that you consider important in your life. They must be avoided at all costs. Your best bet is the following action:
– Contact local law enforcement, the FBI, and any other agency dealing with disturbed individuals who have threatened you, slandered you (either directly or through a third party), committed defamatory acts, attempted theft, or falsified documents. Keep records, website postings and all documentation via the internet and third party witnesses (organizations, individuals and emails) as this is essential. Remember, this is a federal crime.
– Get in touch with an attorney, agencies, website managers and share your story. You are the victim, regardless of what the other person is vomiting.
– Do not allow this person to live in your conscience. Remember, you are the antithesis of this personality and every moment you think about them, you are allowing them to live in the confines of your mind, without paying rent. Force them out by filling your mind with positivity and positive individuals, who share similar interests and nurture your soul.
– Go ahead, don’t look back, but learn from this experience. This is a lesson about life and work, teaching you to be aware of limits and why you need to protect yourself. This is your responsibility, to make sure that no one crosses those lines again, because your sense of intuition is probably correct when you begin to doubt the veracity of the individual from the first time you speak to him.
– Never blame yourself. Unfortunately, these circumstances occur when one is unprepared and vulnerable. Reaching out through kindness and sharing is not always rewarded when the recipient’s intention is purely malevolent and narcissistic. Unfortunately, these circumstances occur when one is unprepared and vulnerable.
– We all make mistakes, but this experience will allow you to take a step back and go with your intuition. Listen to those uncomfortable feelings when you first deal with someone in this category. Back off before you are forced to leave the relationship out of instinctive self-protection. As the old saying goes, “When someone shows you who they are, believe him.
