Increase a woman’s libido: 3 little-known secrets to turn her on more often

If you’re trying to turn your wife on more often, you could be making things worse. A woman’s desire to have sex with a man is largely based on her perception of him and her beliefs. When the guy fails to understand this, he ends up initiating sex without paying attention to how he is currently perceived.

So if his wife tells him night after night that she’s not in the mood, he’ll assume she doesn’t enjoy sex as much as he does. The real trouble starts when he tries to solve the problem. Most likely, he will end up having conversations that will end up convincing her that she has a low libido.

This is the worst thing he could have done.

Once she believes she has a sexual desire problem, her libido will actually worsen because a person’s actions are driven by her beliefs (about herself, about others, about all kinds of situations, etc.). If a man you want your wife to be you want to have sex more often, you need to focus on 4 key things.

The first thing is to realize that it is possible to excite her more often. His desire to have sex is a response to how effective you are at heating up his desire.

It is a psychological process.

Most men will “ask her to have sex” without even realizing that “asking” is not an effective way to make her want sex. All “asking” does is communicate that YOU want to have sex. That is. If you wanted her to laugh more often, you would “do things” that she finds funny (more often). So that’s the first key; realizing that it is possible to arouse her more often.

The second secret is to change the way he perceives you.

At first you should obsess over what she considers a “desirable guy”. The best way to do this is to have conversations about past relationships.

Being on a mission for her to tell stories of:

  • Guys she was in love with.
  • Guys she fell in love with.
  • Celebrities you admire.
  • Etc.

That way, you can begin to secretly listen for the characteristics/traits that you’ve shown to respond to.

Most women are not capable of telling you everything they find desirable about a guy, because they have limited knowledge of the process. In other words, all they know is that they ‘really like it’. His conscience is in his feelings, not in the man’s process.

The good thing is that you can get him to give you detail after detail and he will unknowingly give you information that he doesn’t even realize is relevant to what he finds desirable in a guy.

The third secret is knowing how to influence how you feel.

You see, turning her on is not rocket science. It is about guiding your perceptions and guiding your emotions. That’s why the success rate of getting her to want sex increases dramatically when she feels herself.

So she goes through a process to make her feel good about herself. Compliment her for something she has done that most people have overlooked. Making her feel sexy by flattering her smile and creativity. In conclusion, her basic strategy for turning her on more often should involve doing things to make herself more desirable and eliminating hidden behaviors that dampen her sex drive.

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