A stubborn man is a man who is inflexible or stubborn or simply not inclined to be controlled by anyone. This is a man that once he determines the path he wants to take it is difficult or impossible to dissuade him from that path. The saying ‘as stubborn as a mule’ comes to mind; a mule, once he gets on a trail, follows that trail with dogged determination. Therefore, a stubborn man is not necessarily a bad love interest unless, of course, he has determined that he has no romantic interest in you, at which point he will be a test of will for you to change your mind. But regardless of how stubborn a man is, there must be a way to make him fall for you. What can you do or say to make a stubborn man fall in love with you?
1. Don’t push it! A stubborn man is an expert at resisting direct push, so avoid any direct confrontation to his face, as it won’t work. Scolding him or convincing him to love you won’t work and the more you do it the more he will resist you.
2. Work your charm on it. You want to break through the crack in his stubbornness by approaching him indirectly. Use your appearance and personality to get to him. Be nice to him, but not too much, as stubborn men tend to be suspicious too. He shows off your feminine self, treat him well, listen carefully and be sensitive to what he needs and do it. Your goal is to make him ‘see’ you as you really are and for him to fall in love with you for what you bring to his life.
3. Share your other interests. Find out what he likes to do and be a part of it without following him around or asking for anything more than a shared joy in what he enjoys. You want to do this naturally so he doesn’t think you’re doing it just to catch him, otherwise his defenses could divert your efforts.
4. Ration yourself. Making a stubborn man fall for you will require you to give him space and time to process your presence in his life, so you have to balance being available versus being available. not be available. When you are available, you should bring all your positivity and great attributes to make their perspective of you really great. And when you’re not available, you need to be truly unavailable for him to start missing you and what he experienced and felt with you.
5. Tell her what you like. This may seem counterintuitive, but it works as you let him clearly know what you want so he can make a decision about what to do. Once you have told him that you now need to show your continued interest in him using the first 4 ways given. You must be persistent in loving him, but this does not mean that you force yourself to him, but that you remain faithful to your love for him. Continue to show him that you love him, and be sensitive to what he says or does so that you can tell what’s wrong with him.
You can only show him and tell him that you love him, since he still has to love you back at some point. And you can’t make him love you if he doesn’t have any interest in you even after you’ve done the 5 things listed. So, be real while doing the 5 things so you don’t waste time with a stubborn man who will never love you.
