Single men have had issues throughout the centuries about how they should approach single women. Somehow, things change over time. What women look for in a man seems to evolve. But there are certainly some facts that somehow stand the test of time. Most single women have a few things they look for in a man, and single men should keep those in mind. So here are the tips on how to attract single women.
Be the best you can be. Most women long to be with the Alpha Male. He is the most powerful, most powerful and manly man there is. The alpha male is strong and determined, which means that he promises to be protective and trustworthy. Women want to feel protected, because nothing is sexier than a man trying his best to get the best out of life.
Being physically attractive. Of course, not all women fall in love with the golden-skinned Adonis, and not all men are wounded with beautiful features. Being physically attractive sometimes means you have to be physically fit. Exercise, proper diet, and a decent observance of personal hygiene would work for any man. Oh, and you also have to smell good.
To be interesting. Being interesting means that you may be interested in something that you are passionate about, like a sport, a hobby, or anything. It does not mean that you go around pretending to be someone you are not. Relax, be yourself. You don’t have to brag because if you really are someone who is genuinely interesting, he’ll find out soon enough and he’d even like you more if he found out through other sources instead of you.
Be respectable. Build an honest reputation for yourself. Don’t lie down or mess up at work. A man with high social value is very attractive to single women. Most women want to be with someone everyone looks up to.
Be respectful. Mind your manners and be a gentleman. Review common courtesy and other chivalrous behaviors. Never underestimate women because they know these “rules” of common courtesy, and if they’ve noticed you don’t follow them, then even good looks can’t save you.
be widely distributed. Have you ever wondered why so many women dump their super hot boyfriends? That’s because these guys tend to end up being boring. They are one dimensional. Not even their appearance saved them. What you can do is explore new things, read a lot and be well informed.
Be informed. Be adventurous and learn. Single women want men who have so much going on in their lives and know so much without being nerdy. Heck, even the nerds get some of the girls.
Be a subtle flirt. Everyone knows why cheesy pick-up lines don’t work, but many still do anyway. When approaching a woman, be subtle and relaxed, like you’re only slightly interested in her, or even feign disinterest. Most women feel that men approach them at the drop of a hat, and a disinterested man would make them doubt and desire.
Know yourself. Confidence makes you sexy and attractive. Just that nonchalant kind of self-confidence, the kind you feel when you’re about to join a quiz show and you know all the answers. Of course, self-confidence should never fuel bragging.
Make her feel special. A woman wants to be adored and a little goes a long way. Go the extra mile to make her feel special, because even if you’re just opening a door for her, even if she’s out of the way, she’ll keep you in her thoughts.
