Why do some people seem to get through life with ease, while others are constantly stuck in the middle or end of the mix? Some are very successful in their careers, while others are constantly struggling to keep a job. You might think it’s just because successful people have more than what it takes to be successful, like brains, talent, and powerful people in their corner. But there is something else that is just as important, or even more important: attitude.
Dr. Martin Seligman, an authority on optimism, found that attitude was a better predictor of success than IQ, education, and most other factors in predicting career success. She found that positive people stay healthier, have better relationships, and go the extra mile in their careers. And he even found that positive people make more money.
Dr. Donald Clifton, the father of strengths psychology and the grandfather of positive psychology, convincingly convinced the world that if you can identify, appreciate, and maximize your natural abilities, you will prosper personally and professionally. By paying attention to the positive, more positive will come.
Attitude is the cornerstone of character. It’s the glue that holds your reputation together. Others know you largely because of your character. Your attitude has been developing throughout your life. All the accumulated experiences you’ve had, the lessons learned, and your reaction to the ups and downs of life impact what your attitude will be like today.
Anyone can adopt the right attitude. No matter where you are from or how much innate talent you have, the right attitude can make a difference in your career and life. Try adopting these 10 attitudes of successful workers:
1. I am in charge of my destiny.
If you spend your entire career waiting for something exciting to come your way, you’ll be waiting a long time. Successful professionals go out and make good things happen. So commit to thinking about your career in a completely different way. You will reach the top and you are in charge of making it happen.
2. Create a mental image based on the possibilities.
Do you think that in any way you will be at the level of vice president? Then you definitely won’t. Remember: if you think you can’t, you probably won’t. Take the attitude of The Little Engine That Could: “I think I can.”
3. No task is too small to do well.
You never know when it will get noticed. That’s one reason to take pride in your work, everything. Character is formed by the series of decisions and small tasks that you undertake in life. Remember this the next time you feel like lounging about because you are working on a menial task.
4. Everyone is a potential key contact.
While you have to be aggressive in the workplace, you can also go a long way by being kind to those around you. Do you think it is not important to establish a good relationship with your boss’s secretary? Well, try to fit your meeting on schedule when you really need it. Be courteous to those around you – you never know when your past contacts will play a role in your future. As you approach others, you will gradually surround yourself with a web of strength.
5. I was made to do this job … and the one above me.
If you spend your days feeling that you are not cut out to do the work for which you are responsible, your performance will suffer. Successful workers act like they’re in their dream job, no matter where they are. While your job may not be suitable, make sure your job can use your natural abilities on a regular basis.
6. It’s not just what I know, but who I know.
Successful workers understand the importance of networking, both in and out of the office. You need to proactively network. Invite a colleague to lunch. Go to happy hour after work. Join your professional association. Do your part to establish a networking path for your future. Basic rule: give first.
7. What else can I do?
Since you are in charge of your destiny, it is your job to find ways to enhance your professional self. Volunteer to take on an additional project. Learn a new skill that will make you more commercial. Stay up late to help your coworkers. Successful workers not only complete the job and retire, but look for additional ways to make their mark.
8. Failure will help pave the way to my success.
While it seems like some people never experience setbacks, the truth is that everyone fails from time to time. The difference between successful and unsuccessful people is how they deal with failure. Those who find success are the ones who learn from mistakes and move on.
9. I am my biggest fan.
Have you been waiting for someone in the office to recognize your talents and efforts? Successful workers know how to flag their accomplishments without appearing boastful. At the very least, tell yourself that you are doing a great job. Self-talk can be a powerful motivator.
10. My opportunity monitor never turns off.
Yes, there will be days when you just want to be happy with the status quo. But remember that successful workers are always looking for opportunities to improve. Keep your eyes, ears and your mind open to new opportunities; You never know when you’ll discover the one that will change the course of your career!
