When it all comes down to it, pleasing a woman in bed isn’t that hard. Many men feel that they have to learn complicated techniques and read tons of books to figure out the exact angle or position to have proper sex with a woman. But all that is not necessary. If you follow four easy steps, your success with sex will increase exponentially.
The first and most important thing to remember about sex with women is that it is all about anticipation. I cannot stress enough the importance of giving your woman at least an hour of foreplay. You want me to beg you to have sex with her. And I mean you literally want her to ask you to have sex! You want me to grab you and put you inside her. When it does, you’ll know you’ve built up the right amount of anticipation. The biggest enemy is yourself. Be patient, have your own domain. Let her decide when it’s time to move on to the next step.
The second thing that almost all men don’t consider is that sex for women is 90% mental. If he’s having trouble getting a woman to climax during sex, it’s probably because he can’t seduce her with her words. Sex experts tell us that a woman’s largest sexual organ is her brain, and as men, we should use it to our best advantage. You need to talk to him in a sexual way. Tell her that she is beautiful, that her body turns you on, that you care about her, and that you love the way she feels in your arms. You also want to take her on an emotional roller coaster up to and during intercourse. In a playful way, you can even scare her by grabbing her wrists and pinning her against her pillows while giving her a dirty look when she tries to touch you. Then, as you lean in and nibble on her neck, you can whisper something like, “Bad girl!” Then you can kiss her gently on her neck as she slides her fingertips down the inside of her arms, chest, and stomach. Then you can learn and whisper: “You are adorable.” This will take her from being (playfully) scared to feeling helpless to feeling adored. This is the perfect emotional roller coaster to create during sex.
The third thing to consider is your touch. Your touch should start out soft. Pretend to touch the soft skin of a newborn. Slide your fingers all over her body. Touch his face, run your hand over the back of his neck and gently cup his hair. Use your body to occasionally apply pressure to his body. Have her wrap her legs around your lower back and move her to a different spot on the bed with your arm under her back. Make her feel vulnerable, feminine, manipulated. Use all your limbs and kiss her in places where she has never been kissed before. Ask her to lie on her stomach with her body resting on her elbows and gently caress her breasts as you kiss the middle of her upper back to her neck. Kiss the edge of her ear and exhale gently as you slide your hand down her inner thigh. Spell words on her back with your fingertips and ask her to guess what they say. Lick her inner thighs, make her back arch and her face sweat with your caresses and kisses. Do that for about an hour and she’ll rip your underwear off of her and beg you to have sex with her. Then say “NO!” while you playfully immobilize her and make her wait even longer. Then, just when you know she can’t wait another minute, slide inside her slowly and deliberately.
The fourth step is to control your thrusts. When you first enter a woman, keep the anticipation to a maximum. Just place the first inch or so, and slowly move her in and out as you lean against her and look into her eyes. When she can’t take it anymore, she will push her hips towards you to fully penetrate him. Then lean all of her weight on it and slowly pull him almost all the way back out, then back in. Keep a slow and steady pace at the beginning of sex. Angle her thrusts so that your head brushes the top of hers channel to stimulate her G-spot.Make sure her pelvic bone moves away from hers and then come back to make rough contact in the stroke input. This will stimulate her clitoris and bring her to orgasm. Let her be the barometer of your stroke. Some women like him more than others, so read their reactions. But keep the anticipation in place, don’t allow yourself to get greedy. Many times the hardest thing for men during sex is controlling themselves. But you must be strong during sex, don’t allow yourself too much until she has already had her orgasm. Focus completely on enjoying it, but don’t make it obvious. Never, under any circumstances, mention to him that you want to give him an orgasm. Pushing a girl to cum during sex is the best way to prevent it from happening, so don’t even mention it! Keep the mood light and fun at certain times, and passionate and heavy at others. For your energy in her body and adore every inch of her. Be there fully, focus all your attention on her. Keep a steady pace as you take her up the mountain to her orgasm.
