In his best-selling PDF download, Text Your Ex Back, Michael Fiore talks about using “best of relationship” texts as part of an overall plan to get your ex back after a breakup. The core idea is that carefully crafted text messages sent from your iPhone or other smartphone can open up your ex to the idea of getting back together with you.
It may seem far-fetched to some, but these are generally the people who underestimate texting as a powerful and extremely helpful form of communication that gives you incredible access to your ex in a personal, private, and intimate way.
Best of Relationships texts use emotional language to plant positive thoughts and emotions in your ex’s mind. They are based on the best memories and experiences that you and your ex have shared, so you will need to do a little homework before you start using them.
Think of all the positive things that brought you and your ex together. What were the best experiences you shared together? Was it adventures? Were they romantic or sexual? Did they happen with friends and family? Through emotional language, you will take these memories and experiences and make them as real as possible so that your ex thinks of you in a positive way.
When you start texting your ex, the best of relationship texts won’t be your best option. You should establish some communication with your ex before you start using them. In Text Your Ex Back, Michael Fiore recommends using “through the arc” text to get the ball rolling. Only then do the best texts in the relationship come into play.
So how do you combine the best of relationship texts with emotional language to create a powerful text message effect that will resonate with your ex? You have to understand what emotional language is.
Michael Fiore says, “Emotional language is the words that bypass the critical mind of whoever is speaking and directly appeal to their ‘lizard brain’ in a way that they can hardly resist.” He uses an example of the word “hit” versus the word “erase.” Can you see how much more powerful the latter is?
When you use the best of relationship texts, you will focus on the memories … good memories. Then you will ask your ex to remember something positive and fun, and you will be directing that memory in his mind.
For example, “Do you remember the time we raced those Go Karts on the county track? You were so excited when you hit my ass and spun me around so you could pass me and beat me. Brat. It was a blast though and you looked good with your cute little racer helmet. “
Just remember to focus on fun, happy, and enjoyable experiences so your ex will have positive thoughts about you.