There is a secret to making a man go crazy just thinking of you. When you taste a really good cake, but there is very little to feast on, you find yourself looking for the exact same cake in different bakeries and wanting the whole pan instead of a small slice. You are the cake, make me hungry for you. Here’s how to make him miss you more.
Never settle for “ok”
Going the extra mile is pretty much everything in any relationship. Mediocrity makes you look like the millions of girls who pass him by every day. But if you know how to add a little oomph to anything you do, he will always compare and find you better than anyone or anything. They all put sugar in their coffee, but you use a secret recipe that involves honey. He may not know how you make his coffee, but he sure will still want it, and you, when you’re not around.
Get out of the loop.
You’re perpetually online on Facebook and you reply to every text message you receive, no matter who it is from. If he knows that you are so nice, he will put you on the lowest of his priorities. Why? Because you are so easy to reach, you don’t need to call ahead to make reservations. This means that they can run around and if they are unlucky they can turn to you. But when he does, it doesn’t mean he misses you.
Leave subtle trails.
Try this trick. When he invites you to dinner and a drink at his house, leave something material that will remind him of you. Maybe a scarf. Or spray your perfume on your pillow. The key word is subtle. If you dump the entire contents of his bottle, he will know what he is doing, throw away the pillow, and just buy a new one. But if at the end of a long day, he lays on his bed and smells you, he’ll remember how good he had it with you.
Your subtle trails shouldn’t take you so easily.
So you left your scarf on her couch. He doesn’t know that you left it there on purpose, and if you left a good impression on him, he will return it to you, but with the main intention of seeing you again. Then he will call you to tell you that you left your scarf. Be ‘unavailable’ a few times that he asks, until he can’t take it anymore and probably delivers it to him himself, with flowers.
Being busy.
The worst thing you can do to yourself is wonder if he’s thinking of you. After a great date, move on with your life as a normal person. If you are single, mix with other people. If he calls again, gently dismiss him a couple of times, telling him that you’re busy. Never be distant, or you will just move on with your life and find someone else. One trick is to keep him waiting. “Saturday? Oh no, sorry, I have a beauty convention to attend, but next week would be great.” It’s better than saying “Sorry, I’m busy.”
Try something new from time to time.
You are beautiful, and that is exactly what caught her attention in the first place. But try to stare at the same old thing over and over again, and you will soon find your eyes wandering. Always keep your guy missing you by giving him something new to look at. What’s great about this, too, is that it imagines you when you’re out and about, and everyone knows that anticipation builds with imagination. Tell him you’ve tanned, but let him know on the phone. So, don’t bother showing yourself for a few days. He will keep wondering what you look like.
Hold on to your emotions.
If you are dating someone but you are not at a point where you are in a relationship, you will have to stop telling them how you feel in the meantime. The boy simply enjoys your company and everything you have. If you reveal your feelings to him, and especially if you drop the L-word, he may turn away from you and force himself to forget about you because he’s under pressure. Let him miss you and the fun times you have together, without the drama.
