One of the most important things to realize whenever we try to do something with or for another is that we cannot give what we do not have. First we must become and/or have what we wish to give.
We cannot give money or food if we do not have. However, we do not understand that this applies to all levels of our being. We can only give from our essence and what is in our soul. Apparently, many of us are unable to get what we want to achieve in life because we can’t get what we want within ourselves first. We are not able to create the necessary conditions within our own being to have what is necessary to achieve our desired external experience.
Somehow we must change the essence of our being because there are certain concepts and understanding about how we create our experiences that were never provided to us. This is particularly true for anything in our lives.
We can not give what we have. We need to somehow become what we want to be in life. Consequently, we cannot love ourselves in the way that we need to be loved, we cannot give love to another. We can give out of a sense of duty, obligation, and expectation, but we cannot give love simply because we don’t have to give.
In reality, we seek satisfaction in what we want externally rather than finding satisfaction in who and what we are. Finding fulfillment in who and what we are allows us to feel a wholeness within our being and experience a unity in our lives. Our desires arise from a desire to share our life’s abundance with others rather than looking to another to meet our needs.
Life can be this complicated, but we can make it simple by being appreciative and appreciative of what we have. We can share these virtues with others, but many times they are ignored by some due to their inability to accept intangible things that money cannot buy. It’s hard to open up and love without feeling vulnerable.
I don’t know why other people impose too much. I am really a very nice person. But I am surrounded by very parasitic people who think of me as a wonder woman who can make anything possible. I am like any other person, imperfect but capable of loving and caring for my family despite the odds. Why do other people abuse my kindness? Can’t they see my worth?
The reason I don’t want to be around my family is that they want me to do everything for them even though I’ve already given them everything I have: time, money, and effort. I also have children who need my unconditional devotion.
You know I would never leave you. I love you all.
