Appearance matters in nonverbal interview communications

We’ve always heard it said that “looks don’t matter” or “it’s what’s inside that counts”. Well, while this may be true, when entering an interview environment the first rule of thumb is that looks do matter.

Research shows that the vast majority of communication between individuals, especially those meeting for the first time, takes place through non-verbal signals. Non-verbal communication is very broad in nature and ranges from appearance, attitude, how one carries oneself, smile, body language, eye contact, breathing patterns, laughter, voice, and speech patterns. The list is one, but we will only focus on those relevant to participate in a stellar interview.

When meeting someone who may become your potential boss, hiring manager, or influential assistant, a positive and appropriate first impression is vital. Basic assumptions like good hygiene must be given, clean shaven, clean clothes, clean body.

However, the style of clothing, hair style, outerwear, shoes, even umbrellas, bags, briefcases and purses must be appropriate for the position for which you are being interviewed. Nothing will hurt your chances more than walking into an interview with flip-flops, a wrinkled shirt, an old stain on your tie, or a tote bag with glitter on the side. You want to give the right impression that you are serious about the interview, you want the job, and you are the right person for the company.

Looking at the dress code of a company you are interviewing for is a great way to find the right clothes for the job. Dress codes vary, so it’s definitely something to check. The tall style is fine, even sought after in some industries, but keep it conservative for the interview. Nothing should be worn that is too short, too tight, or too dressy; it could intimidate you or present you as over or under qualified. After getting the job, you can decide how far to expand the wardrobe.

In addition to your clothing, other areas to check during interview preparation include carry-on items like a purse, purse, and even an umbrella. Make sure that your entire ensemble is in line with the professional image you are trying to convey. Come to the interview prepared with a notepad, a quality pen, extra copies of your resume, and all other relevant documentation. Prepare to portray the professional you are and one who is confident, prepared and able to handle the job.

Other interview non-verbal communication skills to sharpen include; Presenting a firm handshake, making and maintaining eye contact, walking confidently, and displaying a pleasant demeanor are all ways to benefit your first impression. Strive to find something that “connects” you and the employer. Look around the office, is he into deep-sea diving, chess or golf like you? Mention it! This will help break the ice and bring emotional connections to the image, and help you be remembered.

Like everything in life, you have to work for anything worth having. If this job is worth having, go for it! Make It Happen: You know you’re right for the job, all you have to do is convince the employer. The look and proper preparation is the key!!

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